Enjoy the Thrills of Kissing
But don’t be in a hurry! As in all matters pertaining to love, don’t hurry the process of kissing. A kiss is too rapturous a thing to be enjoyed for the moment and the moment only.
Linger longer on her lips than you have ever lingered before. Forget time. Forget everything but the kiss in which you are in the midst of.
Don’t be like that bashful young lover who, after a sweet, long kiss, drew his lips away from the lips of his charmer. Immediately, She burst out into tears.
“What’s the matter?” he asked solicitously.
“You don’t love me I”, she said between sobs.
“But I do!”
“Then why did you draw your lips away?”
“I couldn’t breathe”, he said naively.
Breathe? Who wants to breathe? Who even wants to think of breathing in the middle of an impassioned kiss? Breathe through your nose if you have to breathe. But kiss, keep on kissing as long as there is one minim of breath in you. Kiss as Byron said we should kiss, with the “long, long kiss of youth and love”.
Recently in Chicago, they held a marathon kissing contest to determine which couple could hold their kiss the longest without being forced to separate. One couple was able to hold their kiss for fifteen hours. Think of that: Fifteen hours! And yet the naive lad stopped kissing because he couldn’t breathe.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning must have spent many an ecstatic night of kissing with the poet Robert Browning if we are to judge from an excerpt from her “Aurora Leigh”, in which she described a kiss as being “As long and silent as the ecstatic night”.
Another poet, unknown but certainly one who knew whereof he speaks, wrote the following poem which deserves to be quoted in its entirety.
“Oh, that a joy so soon should waste,
Or so sweet a bliss as a kiss
Might not forever last!
So sugared, so melting, so delicious.
The dew that lies on roses,
When the morn herself discloses,
Is not so precious.
Oh, rather than I would it smother
Were I to taste such another.
It should be my wishing
That I might die kissing.”
At this point, it should be explained that the lips are not the only part of the mouth which should be joined in kissing. Every lover is a glutton. He wants everything that is part of his sweetheart - everything!
He doesn’t want to miss a single iota of her “million pleasured joys” as Keats once wrote of them. That is why, when kissing, there should be as many contacts, bodily contacts, as is possible. Feel the warm touch of each other’s bodies. Be so close that the rise and fall of each other’s bosoms is felt by one another.
Get next to each other.
Snuggle Up Closely Together.
And, this same thing applies to the mouth in kissing. Don’t be afraid to kiss with more than your lips. After your lips have been glued together for some time, open them slightly. Then put the tip of your tongue out so that you can feel the smooth surface of your kissee’s teeth. This will be a signal for her to respond in kind. If she is wholly in accord with you, if she is truly your real lovemate, then you will notice that she, too, has opened her lips slightly and that soon her teeth will be parted. Then, if she is all that she should be, she should project the tip of her tongue so that it meets with the tip of yours.
Heaven will be in that union!
Lava will run through your veins instead of blood. Your breath will come in short gasps. There will rise up in you an overpowering, overwhelming surge of emotion such as you have never before experienced. If you are a man, you will clutch the shoulders of your loved one and sense a shudder course through you that makes you pant. If you are a woman and being kissed, you will feel a strange languor passing through your limbs, your entire body. A shudder will go through you. You will moan in the delicious transports of love.
And, in all probabilities, you will go faint because the blood in your veins will be rushing furiously into your entire system and away from your head. Thus, you will be unable to think any longer. You will only be able to feel, to feel the most exquisite of pleasures that it has been your lot to feel.